Narcissist and sex.

Narcissist and sex, just another thing to a narcissist to manipulate you even more, if the narcissist wants sex or doesn’t, it’s just another tool to get at you, both male and female narcissist, use it the better their advantage over you. They can use it to push and pull you, so they can control your emotional reactions, they know that sex makes you feel loved,

You believe in happy ever after, so you think of love and sex as the same. They are fully aware of your needs, to hook you in they create an illusion and give you everything you’ve ever dreamed off. They know you’re waiting for someone to come along and sweep you off your feet. They learn from songs and movies, how much you want to be loved and cared for, and exactly how to portray it to you, learning everything they can about you, then they can start taking you apart. It’s all more manipulative behaviour, for them to give you want you to want, then take it all away from you.

Narcissist do not see it as love and intimacy, they see it as a method of further manipulation,

When you first meet them, it’s a whirlwind romance, that sucks you into an illusion, as the narcissist is all fake, just a mask that will one day slip.

Narcissist see love and sex as completely different things, too a narcissist these things do not go together, they do however know what people with empathy, think about sex and the union of two people who love each other coming together, people who have empathy that are, loving, trusting, caring, kind and honest see it as a healthy part of a strong and loving relationship.

Those narcissists who enjoy sex, see it pleasure for themselves, they will ask about your sex life, not all will do this intrusively, some will watch a romantic film with you. Ask subtle questions about it, just so they know what they can later use against you. Narcissist know that passion at the beginning of a relationship is far more intense than as you go through life together, they up this passion to really sweep you off your feet.

They now that sex, in the beginning, Is where normal people with empathy cannot keep their hands off each other, they also know this is a point where people may try new things,

A narcissist has no feelings towards sex when it comes to the other person involved.

Narcissist use the being of a sexual relationship, where you jump into bed together at every opportunity as a means to an end, of drawing you deeper into their games,

They see sex as an opportunity, to give you what you want, then they can extract what the want from you.

Narcissist only sees sex as important as, they like the positive reactions they get from you during sex, they want you to want them and want more, they know they can go get it somewhere else if needs must.

When they go for the quick rough and tumble in the kitchen, it’s all about them meeting their needs, you believe it’s because they attracted to you, nope it’s just for their own satisfaction,

The passionate long encounters, you think it’s love.

The quick on a whim ones, you believe the passion is still there.

All for their own needs.

They live in a different reality to us, they see sex as a device to further their manipulation and get their needs met. They do however understand what it means to you, even though they don’t feel it for themselves.

As you see sex as love, intimacy, joy and pleasure.

They only extract the emotions from you. They do get a physical reaction from sex, just no emotional one. You might as well be their hand as it’s just a mechanical act to them.

They use it to break your sexual boundaries.

There is those narcissist who is incredible in bed, this is just so you fall harder for them, madly in love with them, as the connection is incredible, even when you’ve split up and no longer like them, they know you still crave the sex, thus helping them more when it comes to breaking your boundaries with the hoover.

There the narcissist that will watch porn, and masticate, purely for the physical effects.

There is a few that are terrible in bed, not many, yet they’ll use this as a pity play, that they haven’t had much experience and they want you to teach them.

There are those narcissists that will push for constant sex, just so they know they can stop you in whatever you are doing no matter how important to tend to them when you don’t they can deploy an argument, silent treatment, win-win to the narcissist, either way, they get the emotions,

There are also those narcissists that just find it plain dirty, these are the ones who’ll jump straight into the bath or shower afterwards, they be happy to have sex in the start, then they become all to frigid, Often blaming you for being a sex addict, even though it’s the first time you’ve brought it up in six months,

Sex to a narcissist is just another method of manipulation.

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