The Malignant Narcissist.

The Malignant Narcissist.

Possibly the most dangerous and harmful narcissist there is.

They are a true psychopath; like many narcissists, they have a lack of empathy; they are capable of committing multiple crimes without care, including violent and sexual offences with no remorse.

All narcissists can be dangerous, all narcissists can be exploitative, yet malignant ones take it to the next level.

They rely on others to define them. Their self-esteem comes from the outside world; their moods can be all over; they seek excessive attention to seek approval from others. They are extraordinarily arrogant and self-centred. They have a very fragile, super-sensitive ego. They have a need to convince all others just how special they are.

They are immature, liars, hateful, vindictive, petty, envious, insecure, paranoid, aggressive, moody, greedy and very draining to be around.

They are dependent on the world to feed them as they believe they are superior to all others.

They will hold onto grudges. They will retaliate and humiliate those the narcissist believes has turned against them.

Researchers say, Theses individuals actually have a few personality disorders. They have a narcissistic personality disorder, narcissistic people can have traits of other disorders, like paranoia, yet a malignant narcissist often has paranoia personality disorder also psychopath personality disorder. They also have an antisocial personality disorder. Most narcissists have traits of antisocial behaviours. Malignant often have the full disorder.

Malignant narcissists will go to extreme means to be at the top and get the worlds attention as they believe they are entitled to the world,

A malignant narcissist will show fake empathy to followers to protect themselves, to get followers to protect them. People either love and respect them or genuinely fear them both will carry out their demands enabling the malignant narcissists.

They will go to great lengths to protect themselves, as researchers suggest Adolf Hitler was an example of a malignant narcissist. Look at the following he achieved, what he got others to do for him, and how many he destroyed.

Malignant narcissists need power and control. They achieve this by coming across as a great saviour to others in the beginning. They will go all out to protect their followers, not because they care for their followers. By protecting their followers, it protects themselves.

They will hurt, and they are capable of murdering anyone who gets in their way.

Once you understand narcissistic personality disorder, most narcissistic people will become obvious to you. Malignant come across as helping others and are far harder to spot at first, also far harder to stop.

In a relationship, like all narcissists, they represent themselves as important, worthy of admiration and love. They will talk a great talk.

They can also tell many sob stories about those that hurt them in a way to gain sympathy, to gain supporters. They will come across as a poor individual who has been hurt, to gain flying monkeys to help with their abuse by proxy, and gain enablers to protect themselves.

As they present themselves as loving and caring, a victim and your saviour, many feel sorry for them. Partners will want to support them. The malignant narcissist will lie, manipulate and cheat like all other narcissists. They set it up, so you want to fight their corner and protect them. Once you are hooked, if you cross them, their psychopathy comes out, as they will do anything to protect themselves. They will beat you, and they will hurt you to get their needs met. They may also get others to do this. They will do anything to maintain their relationship with you as they rule through love or fear.

If their exes or your family, try to warn you. They will tell you not to believe others, that others are just trying to split you up. That others are just jealous about what the two of you have. They’ll manipulate you so well, you’ll believe them.

Malignant narcissists will do things to others that are informing you. They will triangulate, smear names or threaten to get them to leave you alone. So the narcissist can maintain power over you. They are terrifying, and they will find any means possible to end your friendship with those trying to help you.

They will stop at nothing to protect what is important to them. If you escape one of these, you will most likely have to go no contact and move miles away.

The malignant narcissist is the most dangerous of all.

Don’t ever give up on yourself, and there is always hope. When good people come together, great things start to happen.

The malignant narcissist.

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