Overcoming narcissist Abuse, by Elizabeth Shaw.
This is a question most of us ask ourselves at some point as most narcissistic people go from one relationship to the next, often crossing over partners.
Whether you were the one to leave or they left you, when you discover they’ve moved on so fast, whilst you’re left heartbroken and trying to heal yourself and move forward, its had enough when a relationship with two loving people breaks time, yes some loving people also move on fast to heal the pain, often carrying the trauma from the previous relationship into the next.
Not only do you discover they’ve moved on fast, but they are also most likely rubbing it in your face, either by social media of their flying monkeys. This is why blocking and deleting them and their flying monkeys, then going no contact or grey rock if you have children with them is best to help you heal, and you will heal.
They move from partner to partner to fill their own insecurities, it could last a few months or a few years, they are simply using them until they can not use them any more and find a replacement. It did not start with you and it will not end with you. They do not love their use. To meet their own needs.
Remember how it was for you in the beginning, that’s all they are showing with the new partner, the golden period, the love bombing phase the hooking the new in. Some of you might want to warn the new, this will not end well when you met the narcissist and they were treating you so well. Smearing the ex to you. What would you think if that ex had come trying to rescue you?
Why will they never change? The way they fill up their six human needs is exactly why they’ll never change.
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