Is the narcissist watching you?
Stalking is against the law, however getting the evidence for law enforcement to do something is tricky, save any message you get from the narcissist, from their friends and from their family, take photos when they come to your house or do a drive-by, and call the police every time. You need to build up the evidence so they can take action.
Narcissists will smear you to all others about just how crazy you are, so when you tell them you’re being stalked, they don’t believe you.
Stalking can often end in violence, so keep yourself safe, make sure the narcissist hasn’t put a tracker on your phone, even better get a new phone, same for tracking devices in your car, keep your phone charged up and on you at all times, stay vigilant.
Stalking is the willful harassment of another person, from repeatedly turning up at your home, bombarding you with messages or calls, getting friends and family to do so, turning up unexpectedly where you are, frequently driving past you, even moving across the road and sending you messages of what you are dressed in. Approaching you, harming pets, stalking your children, calling your boss to make false accusations, sending threatening or sexual letters, messages, emails or gifts.
Stalking your social media, setting up fake accounts to do so. ( if you’ve checked on theirs as you want closure, it happens to the best of us, but do stop now, not all but a few do this it is normal if you are one of them, as you just want answers, some even check out the new partner, this isn’t done with malicious intent often just curiosity, closure, again if you did, you’re not alone, some do some don’t.)
They are trying to intimidate you and restrict your freedom to keep control over you.
Those who continually stalk most often do suffer from some form of personality disorder. Not all narcissists stalk. Some are too lazy. However, a lot will.
Most abusers who are stalkers often have substance abuse and will be addicts to at least one of the following, drugs, alcohol, gambling, porn, addiction to people, addiction to having the best of whatever they can and extremely jealous when someone has better.
Block the narcissist on everything you can, block all their flying monkeys, don’t let them know anything about your life. Keep your phone charged, make sure there is no tracking device and report every single incident to the authorities, keep doors locked, know a safe place to get to, again call authorities over anything, no matter how small. Also, once those steps are in place, and you know what to do, don’t focus on it, live and enjoy your life.
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