Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse, by Elizabeth Shaw – Life Coach.
Whether it’s your ex-narcissist, friends, family or people you don’t know, be aware of the vision, dream and passion killers in your life.
When you have a vision, and you become excited about it because you’re incredibly excited about it, don’t listen to those who put you down.
Have a dream, make a plan then action the steps to get you to where you want to be. Whatever it is in life, you want to achieve for yourself.
Those people full of their own insecurities that have no dreams and no goals will go all out to destroy yours, just to make themselves feel better. They just put you down, and over time this drains all your energy.
It is necessary, and possible for you to create your own reality and put steps in place to achieve your dreams and make what you want from life a reality. You have to work on yourself and develop yourself.
When someone tells you, that you can not do something and you know in your gut you need to for the good of yourself and others, don’t listen, instead, use that to go out there and prove that you can.
Anything is possible, and you just need to create your vision, then take the steps you need to take to achieve it.
People didn’t believe in the possibility of the lightbulb before it existed.
Thomas A. Edison quote “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” “Many of life’s failures are people who did not realise how close they were to success when they gave up.”
Don’t listen to those who don’t believe you can, instead go out and show them you can.
Use the haters to motivate you, use their negativity to thrive and grow yourself and show them how it’s done, help those who can do it too.
Do not let them stop you, do not let them put fear into you, so you don’t go out there and achieve your dreams, you can let them break you, or you can show them how you made you.
Nobody has the right to stop you achieving what you want to achieve, nobody has the right to stop you doing what you want to do, so go out there do good then, give a little back, only you can let those naysayers stop you from achieving your dreams, only you can prove those naysayers wrong, the further up you go, the more lovers and haters you will accumulate along the way, walk with the lovers, leave the haters behind.
You are allowed to listen to your instincts, listen to your true self, be exactly who you want to be, and do whatever it takes to do what you want to do, to achieve your own dreams for you.
You only have to prove yourself to yourself, not to others, and the right people will always walk with you.
Those people in your life that no matter how good you are doing just want to bring you down, those who no matter how bad you are doing just want to bring you further down, you can not help those people, wish them well and leave them be. Those people who want to see you succeed, those who want to raise you up when you’re having a bad day, those are the ones to keep in your life.
If you feel you’ve been planted into never-ending darkness, you have to get up, show up and give yourself that inner drive to get up and go again, to rise out of that darkness and back into the light, to become your own shining light and your own guiding light, Keeping those close who wish to help you along the way, and helping those who accept and appreciate your help along there own journey of life.
A quote from Harry Potter
- “Happiness can be found in the darkest of times if one only remembers to turn on the light.“
Don’t let distractions distract you, from taking those steps to achieving who you want to be and where you want to be, don’t let others opinions hold you back, constructive criticism is amazing when used right, but those who just want to see you fail to see you fall, leave them be.
To fail is not a failure. To fail is just your first attempt in learning, change it up, or change direction and keep going until you make it.
Lose the ” I cannot” and change it to “I can.”
Don’t listen to those who say you cannot or put you down. Listen to you, make your own mindset, your own inner dialogue says. “I can, and I will, I am.”
Tell yourself you can, then take the steps to show yourself you have, then keep going.
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