What is the fate of a narcissist?
You might be wondering why you, as a kind, caring, forgiving, loyal person, why has your life been destroyed while the narcissist swans off onto a new life. Why do they do all they do to you and just get away with it? You might be asking, where is the karma? Normal emotions as your trying to not only piece your life back together, also working through everything they put you through.
Karma hits narcissists every second of every day, even if the narcissist walked away with everything. You’ve ended up with nothing, possessions aren’t joy, they are temporary happiness, they are an illusion, I do not deny it’s nice to have things, helpful to have stuff, but it’s vital your joy starts within, so your not reliant upon getting your happiness from an outside source as narcissistic people are. You are now free to find your happiness again. Narcissists are envious of others. Instead of raising others up, they seek to tear others down as they are always seeking more, that quick fix of external joy, to for a moment forget about their internal anguish, you will have stuff Again.
People with all the possessions in the world and people with none can be happy.
People with all the possessions in the world and people with none can be miserable.
A narcissist deep inside will always be miserable, always searching for external happiness, the narcissist does not have real inner joy, they don’t have self-worth as they seek to destroy others to feel better within, not realising it makes them feel worse within, raising others up gives true lasting joy.
If right now you are left devastated and miserable, you can rise, and you can climb out of it, then whether you become extremely wealthy or not. You’ll not need Material items to be happy. You’ll be happy within yourself. You’ll be grateful for them.
Your relationship with yourself is the most important thing.
No matter what a narcissist owns or whoever they are with, they get bored with them, and they need more. They’re always looking for something bigger and better.
Narcissists are so happy with new people or new items, as they’re seeking external validation, that requirement of excessive attention, they lack internal validation. They are envious they see someone else has got something they want, happiness. Belongings, money, and privileges seek to take this from others to feel better within rather than earn for themselves to feel joy.
People who are abused by a narcissist who is determined to heal. Will heal, the narcissist will no longer be able to affect them.
A narcissist can not feel true love, not even for themselves. They can not handle your love them as they’re always looking for more. They don’t heal. They hurt others. They don’t love in the way that someone who has empathy for others loves.
More and more people are healing, becoming more assertive, taking control back of their own lives. Then they lose the fear of the narcissist. They calmly and clearly go to court, and they win. Narcissistic people need your fear to hurt you. The more you stand up to them and no longer fear them, they can no longer hurt you.
When narcissists fall, they fall badly. They don‘t like failure, criticism, abandonment or exposure. Narcissists when they don’t win, it crushes them.
As narcissistic people age, they slowly get destroyed. They’ve left destruction all along with their lives. Narcissists age and lose their ability to charm, they lose their looks, they lose their ability to intimidate others, they lose their power, they lose their jobs, they lose their control, all narcissists end up facing the pain that they never healed in the end.
Narcissists can twist reality as much as they want, however at some point, something catches up with them, and their false reality unravels, and this can often be traced back to the lies they sold others to get their needs met. At some point, karma truly does catch up with them.
You can love yourself again, and you can love others. Others will love you.
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