No Closure
Narcissists give you no closure. Many don’t see themselves as the problem and instead hold grudges against others. Often, they know you’ll chase them for answers, which conveniently fuels their smear campaigns. While they tell everyone you’re “obsessed” or “won’t leave them alone,” you’re left ruminating, stuck in confusion, and struggling to move on.
Without closure, most people search for answers. We want to know why and then how. Narcissists learn from experience that withholding closure not only keeps ex-partners chasing but also provides them with attention and ammunition. Each unanswered question validates their sense of importance. To them, they’re not the problem—you are.
This is part of their manipulation. Narcissists believe they’re entitled to have everything their way, so they use smear campaigns, money, belongings, and sentimental items to keep you chasing. Each excuse, denial, or twisted story is designed to frustrate you into reacting—reactions they later use against you.
Closure, however, doesn’t come from them. They can’t give it without taking responsibility, facing consequences, or admitting fault—all things they avoid at all costs.
True closure comes from within. It’s when you shift from asking, “How could they do this to me?” to affirming, “I deserve respect, honesty, and loyalty.” That realisation is the only closure you’ll ever need.
Supply.
Ruminating.
Belongings.
Two sides to a narcissist after no contact.
Check these out!
Behind The Mask: The Rise Of A Narcissist
15 Rules To Deal With Narcissistic People.: How To Stay Sane And Break The Chain.
A Narcissists Handbook: The ultimate guide to understanding and overcoming narcissistic and emotional abuse.
Boundaries with Narcissists: Safeguarding Emotional, Psychological, and Physical Independence.
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse: A Guided Journal for Recovery and Empowerment: Reclaim Your Identity, Build Self-Esteem, and Embrace a Brighter Future
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I realise now when.we are together I see less of him and it leaves wanting to see more of him, when we break up he.is everywhere I am so.that makes me feel he wants me, we get back together and the cycle begins I just got it!!!!! I’m.finished with it now I.realise thank you
Stay strong, and stay safe, you can do this.