Overcoming narcissist Abuse, by Elizabeth Shaw.
The narcissist does not give closure why?
They give no closure, as they now they linger longer within your minds, they remain stuck there and harder to move out, without closure empathy’s still searching for answers.
It’s just a further manipulation to keep you hooked, they can not let go, so they don’t see why you should be able to,
They know the impact they left on you is deep, you want answers, because you’re not getting them, you want and need to know what’s happening,
Perhaps they owe you money, another manipulation tactic, In the hope you ask them for it, they’ll never give it to you, just provide excuses after excuses to keep you hanging, dangling a carrot and taking it away, they get to keep the connection for longer.
Or they’ll then give you the “what money?” Just to confuse and anger you more. Please see my financial abuse post for more information.
Then it will be belonging they leave in your home. ( there is a post on this for extra information.) they issue excuses after excuses again to keep you waiting, or they’ll keep yours, the ones you most value, again they will keep excuses going.
They want to keep you attached so when the hoover, you’ve not fully let it go.
They may turn up where you are, so you act unhinged, when you react, to help there smear campaign against you and how crazy you are.
They may disappear for a while, to leave you wondering, what’s happened to them.
All tactics to keep you thinking about them.
Learn what they are, learn what they do, know they can not love, give yourself the closure, work on techniques, to get them out of your mind, to recover from anxiety,
You have got this, you can and you will recover, believe in yourself.