Narcissist personality disorder, the dark triad.

The dark triad. Is the clinical term, for very bad person, any of these three types of people are horrible, negative people, nasty, self-absorbed, manipulative, untrustworthy,

We we all tick a box or two for traits of these personality disorders, you have to tick every box to actually have the disorder, so if someone is arrogant or goal-orientated, if they haven’t got the other traits. They haven’t got the disorder.

This is a theory about three personality traits that come together to cause others great difficulty, they do cross over,




Narcissism is characterised, by grandiosity, pride, egotism, and a lack of empathy.

Machiavellianism is characterised, by manipulation and exploitation of others, a cynical disregard for morality, and a focus on self-interest and deception.

Psychopathy is characterised, continuing antisocial behaviour, impulsivity, selfishness, callousness, and remorselessness.

The theory is they all share antagonism, studies have shown they all have extremely low levels to be able to agree with others, often not being able to agree with others,

Themes have been found in a number of studies that link these personality traits.

So these are personality disorders, that are on a spectrum, each having traits that make the disorder.

With narcissism, there are two different types of grandiose. Traits are dominant, arrogant, exhibitionism and exploiting others. Which most of the research is on.

Vulnerable. Traits are self-critical, shyness, mood ability, distrusting others.

Overall narcissistic traits are, those above, as well as, they gain their self-identity through others. Attention seeking, no empathy and because of this they don’t acknowledge, the effects they have on others, shallow. People are used as a means to an end. To gain self esteem, they brag a lot, they believe they are better than others, they are self centred, gaslighting, golden period, then emotional detachment, they need you to respond to messages instantly. Drama, they believe they are starting in a movie and they are the star, controlling with everything, including their reputation, anyone says no to them, that’s just a challenge to get the other person to say yes, rules don’t apply to them, if your a vegetarian and they are not they will try their best to get you to eat meet. If you feel used, it’s a sign they are a narcissist.

With psychopathy. Their is overlap with narcissism, psychopathy traits are, manipulative, callousness, violating rules, lack of empathy, impulsiveness, irresponsibility, superficial charm, shallow affect, lack of remorse, lack of accountability, narcissism, pathological lying, they don’t show embarrassment, they are always looking for excitement, they alway want thrills, you’ll not come across a lazy psychopathy, bulling, these are nasty to animals. They are control freaks.

Most with psychopathy would be diagnosed with an anti social personality disorder. Some with anti social personality disorder would qualify to having psychopathy disorder.

Machiavellianism, traits are, Being callous, being manipulative, goal-oriented, antisocial behaviour, control in impulsive behaviour.

Within the dark triad narcissist and psychopathy are distinct personalities, although some over laps in the traits.

Narcissist and psychopathy are distinct disorders, Machiavellianism slots into psychopathy more than narcissism.

Narcissist almost like to make people, their little puppets. Their manipulation almost turns their partners into zombies, they put partners into a kind of trance, so you no longer know reality, so when you wake and says “hey you cheated on me.” The narcissist strikes back with “you made me.” With a narcissist if they see their partner start to wake up and see reality from their manipulative words, they can panic and use more manipulation to send you into a confused state of mind again, if they see you making a new friend, if they see your inner strength return. They have to send you into that trance state of mind again.

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